Retired Judge & Family Law Attorney

Win your case against the narcissist.

I'm Judge Anthony. For 23+ years I practiced family law, and I spent 5 years on the bench. Now I help parents and spouses navigate high-conflict custody and divorce — with the strategy most people never get told.

1M+ following across Instagram, TikTok & YouTube
Judge Anthony, retired judge and family law attorney
23+ Years
in family law, plus 5 years on the bench
As Featured In Forbes Success Magazine Men's Journal The U.S. Sun LA Weekly OK! Magazine
Who I Help

If you're up against the family court system, you're in the right place.

Most people walk into custody and divorce court underprepared and outmatched. My work is about closing that gap — whatever side of it you're on.

High-conflict custody

Parents in a custody battle where every exchange becomes a fight and the stakes are your kids.

Divorcing a narcissist

Anyone untangling their life from a manipulator who twists every situation to their advantage.

Pro se litigants

Self-represented people who feel outgunned by the other side's lawyer and need a real game plan.

Represented clients

People who have an attorney but want to walk in prepared, ask better questions, and make their time count.

In Their Words

Real people. Real outcomes.

I went nearly 2 years without seeing my daughter. After 2 years of her saying she hated me, just as quickly as she started, she was back to her old self. I couldn't have done it without Anthony.

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Spencer B.
Custody · reunited with his daughter

We've been in and out of court going on 5 years, always represented by an attorney that's cost tens of thousands. I thought I knew a lot, but this training was invaluable — it will save us thousands.

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Brandi D.
Custody · represented client

Anthony is an amazing teacher and I learned so much through his training. I used everything he taught me and I got everything I wanted. It's about what's best for the kids.

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Amanda R.
Custody

Anthony has created a space unlike any other custody forum. My favorite is the way he gets you to think about your case — and what the opposing view may be in court. You will be better prepared.

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Lisa M.
The Judge's community

It not only makes your life ten times easier knowing what's going on in your case and what's next — it gives you a sense of hope that this is all going to be okay. Worth every penny.

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Krystal P.
Course member

Anthony, I hope you realize the impact you've made. If I'd never found this, my husband would not have had the courage to move forward with court. You essentially reunited a father and a son.

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Bryn B.
Custody · family member
The Flagship

Judge Anthony AI — a judge in your pocket.

My AI-powered legal case companion. It reads your documents, exposes the other side's tactics, and knows your state's family law — built on 23+ years of my experience.

Instant document analysis

Upload a pleading, order, or GAL report and get a strategic breakdown in plain English — in seconds.

Expose manipulation

Screenshot a text thread and it flags gaslighting, baiting, and DARVO — and coaches your reply.

Knows your state's law

Family law for all 50 states and DC, loaded automatically for your jurisdiction. No generic answers.

Personal case memory

It remembers your case and gets smarter over time — your state, your ex's tactics, your timeline.

Voice input

Too overwhelmed to type? Talk it through out loud and it listens, organizes, and responds.

Response coaching

Built by a retired judge with 23+ years in family law — guidance you can't get from a generic chatbot.

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Judge Anthony AI is opening to a limited beta. Join the waitlist to claim your spot and lock the founding-member price.

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Free Masterclasses

Start here — free.

Two free trainings where I walk you through the strategy for handling a narcissist in your case. No cost, no catch — just register and watch.

Free WebinarHow to Beat a Narcissist in Custody Court masterclass
Child Custody

How to Beat the Narcissist in Custody Court

The strategy to take on a narcissist in your custody case so you can finally get some peace. Built for parents in a custody battle.

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Free WebinarHow to Dominate the Narcissist in Your Case masterclass
Custody & Divorce

How to Dominate the Narcissist in Your Case

How to take control against a narcissist so you can get what you want — whether you're facing a custody fight, a divorce, or both.

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Programs & Courses

Learn the system from someone who ran the courtroom.

Communities for ongoing support and self-paced courses for the specific fight you're in. Each one is built on real courtroom experience, not theory.

Communities

Skool Community

The Judge's Academy

A legal education membership where you learn the fundamentals of winning custody and divorce cases — and get support from people fighting the same battle.

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Skool CommunityHigher Tier

The Judge's Chambers

The higher-tier community for people who want more direct access and deeper strategy — closer guidance for the highest-stakes cases.

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Courses

Custody Case Mastery course

Custody Case Mastery

A 7-module program that teaches you to think, communicate, prepare, and present like a lawyer — so you walk into custody court with an unfair advantage, whether you're pro se or represented.

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Divorce Mastery course

Divorce Mastery

The strategy, strength, and system to protect your money, your mind, and your future — turning legal confusion into courtroom confidence so you never settle for less.

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Narcissist Silver Bullet course

Narcissist Silver Bullet

An international, 7-module guide to understanding, outsmarting, and overcoming a narcissist — from decoding their mindset to winning in negotiation and the courtroom, then rebuilding your life.

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Prepare Like a Lawyer course

Prepare Like a Lawyer

The exact methods lawyers use to evaluate, document, and organize evidence for a hearing or trial — so your strongest evidence gets in and the bad evidence stays out.

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VIP Consulting

Work with me one-on-one.

For the highest-stakes moments in your case, nothing replaces direct strategy with someone who has sat on the bench. Book a private session and we'll build your plan together.

$950/hr
Private 1-on-1 consultation
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Anthony Bompiani, Judge Anthony
About Me

Why I do this.

I spent over 20 years as a family law and criminal defense attorney, and I was elected to the bench in 2015, serving as a judge for five years. I've seen the family court system from every seat in the room.

Then in 2017, I went through my own divorce. As a father of three sons, I felt the weight of every decision and understood, firsthand, what it means to face a narcissist when your family is on the line. It wasn't another case — it was my life.

Too many good people lose cases they should win, simply because no one ever taught them how the system actually works.

That's why I started Judge Anthony Consulting — to be the ally I wished I'd had. My faith, my family, and my own experience are behind everything I build here.

23+Years in family law
5 yrsOn the bench
1M+Following online
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